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| #1 Posted 7 months ago | Reply | Do you have feelings for some one dear and close to your heart.  I do a'm and not afraid to say that I wan't to ask him out, but it would be weird for me, a girl to ask a boy out. I don't know if he likes me, but I just love him. I don't want to make a fool of myself so WHAT SOULD I DO? Well I've said it. Does anyone else have problems like mine?  |
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| #2 Posted 7 months ago | Reply | Just be confident and all that jazz. It is in no way weird for a girl to ask a guy out, it works the same either way. It's just usally more socially accepted to do it the other way round. Everyone has that kind of problem at some point or other, if you are willing to come out and say it then that's always the best thing to do.
and stuff. |
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| #3 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #1 by Mixtem | Reply | | I'm nearly 100% sure that the guy would be shy too.In fact, most of us guys love it when a girl comes our way for a change. |
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| #4 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #3 by littlekuribohrulz20 | Reply | | Although I'm fairly traditional when it comes to this stuff, I agree with LKR. It'd be nice for girls to show interest. |
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| #5 Posted 7 months ago | Reply | | Huh. I too am facing a dilemma. How does a girl ask a guy out to prom? I know girls love it when guys do something wonderfully romantic and original (and gives the rest of the school a story to tell for the ages), but how would guys liked to be asked? |
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| #6 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #5 by Raulst | Reply | heh
to be honest, MOST guys woulden't care.
as long as you keep your cool it should be fine. |
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| #7 Posted 7 months ago | Reply | | Well I asked him out to day and he sort of blew me off out front of his friends, but after his friends left he apologized and said he really wanted to go out with me. I told him I would think about because of the way he treated me. I'm serriously thinking of not going out wuth him. |
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| #8 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #7 by Mixtem | Reply | then don't.
no reason to go out with a guy if they treat you like crap. |
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| #9 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #7 by Mixtem | Reply | | So it seems you lied about LOVING him in the first post then. |
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| #10 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #5 by Raulst | Reply | | Well for me...........i kinda would want a girl to beg me. But for odda boys that aren't like me, just play it cool and tell 'em straight up, and if they're a little nervous just give 'em time. If time is not on your side, just....persuade 'em. |
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| #11 Posted 7 months ago | Reply | | Men are only good for 2 things, [ one is fixing stuff ] and sometimes they can't even do those right, which is the reason for alternatives. |
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| #13 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #12 by littlekuribohrulz20 | Reply | | leave her be, if she wants to make a mindless retarded generalisation let her do it. |
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| #14 Posted 7 months ago | Reply | | I would be ok if a girl asked me out |
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| #15 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #3 by littlekuribohrulz20 | Reply | I'm nearly 100% sure that the guy would be shy too.In fact, most of us guys love it when a girl comes our way for a change.
This couldn't be more dead-on, seriously. There is nothing more satisfying and unexpected than actually having the girl herself ask you out, simply because that kind of thing basically never happens.Well I asked him out to day and he sort of blew me off out front of his friends, but after his friends left he apologized and said he really wanted to go out with me. I told him I would think about because of the way he treated me. I'm serriously thinking of not going out wuth him.
Most all guys do that, and to be straight-up I'll admit to having done it as well. It's an issue with self-security and masculinity and all that... don't let it deter you.Men are only good for 2 things, [ one is fixing stuff ] and sometimes they can't even do those right, which is the reason for alternatives.
Wow, you suck. |
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| #16 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #15 by Omega | Reply | You know your stuff.
Learn well children. |
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| #17 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #12 by littlekuribohrulz20 | Reply | I will concede that not all men are like that, just the ones I have dated and you LKR.
reminds me of a joke.
"what did God say when man was created?
'I can do better.'
So woman was created.
@Omega: It's a good thing I do suck, or I wouldn't have had as many BFs. |
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| #18 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #17 by gcar90 | Reply | | You should really stop talking, you're just digging yourself into a deeper and deeper hole with each passing word. |
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| #19 Posted 7 months ago | Reply | In all seriousness,
women think men are strange, and men think women are strange. |
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| #20 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #19 by gcar90 | Reply | | depends.To be honest, I truly hate sterotypes.Men and women are equal in every way.Judge a person by who they are, not their sex, race, or background. |
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| #21 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #20 by littlekuribohrulz20 | Reply | So, you as a male, understand the inner workings of the female mind.
I know I don't understand the male mind. |
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| #22 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #21 by gcar90 | Reply | | the male mind (as mine too) is full of thoughts about video games, science fiction, cars, sports, and lots of james dean and jack black (joking) |
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| #23 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #22 by littlekuribohrulz20 | Reply | So what are your thoughts on the female mind. Do you know what goes through a woman's head?
Edit: my female mind is not all kittens and rainbows. |
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| #24 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #23 by gcar90 | Reply | | I wish I could say.I understand what a female needs, but not what they think for I myself am not one. |
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| #25 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #24 by littlekuribohrulz20 | Reply | | Men and women are not meant to understand eachother. They are equal and each have their own purpose. |
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| #26 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #25 by gcar90 | Reply | | yes, but to understand is to avoid conflict. |
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| #30 Posted 7 months ago, in reply to post #29 by darkarcher | Reply | | I fail to understand that.I believe understanding CAN be reached.If you try hard enough. |
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